After finishing my first Half Marathon, I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about what running has taught me. I’ve realized that things I’ve learned from running apply not only to running but to everything I do in life. Because of running, I now know that I will be successful in everything I choose to do in life.
1. DISCIPLINE.
Nobody goes from running nothing to running marathons overnight. Every runner puts time, effort, and energy into their training. Essentially, runners need self-discipline in order to accomplish their goals.
I can think of a bajillion reasons (excuses) why I shouldn’t run 26.2 miles. But at the end of the day, I still go out there and train. I still run and get my miles in. I might spend the first three miles regretting my decision. I might hit mile six and wish for death.
But it doesn’t matter. I still went out there.
At the end of the day, I never regret going out and running. Ever.
I can tune out my lazy inner voice because I realize that if I’m consistent, my hard work will pay off. I won’t be able to run a marathon if I don’t practice. I won’t be able to run a sub-30 5K unless I constantly push myself.
If I want to see results, I must push past my excuses. In the end, it’s always worth it.
2. LOVING WHAT YOU ARE DOING MAKES IT EASIER.
Running is not easy. It’s hard work. But loving and enjoying running makes it seem so much easier. You’re considerably happier when you’re doing something that you love instead of something that you dread or have to do.
It’ll still be difficult, but in the end, it’s worth it. It’s worth it because you love it.
Running has transformed into something that I love because I find reasons to love it.
I love running because it makes me connect with the Earth.
I love running because the air I breathe makes me feel alive.
I love running because the time I get alone allows me to clear my thoughts and focus.
I love running because it gives me absolute control.
I love running because it helps me set and accomplish goals.
I love running because it makes me feel invincible, like I am Wonder Woman.
I love running because it is free. You don’t need anything but your feet.
I love running because it is soul-cleansing.
I feel reborn after every run. Sometimes literally, because my muscles are begging for mercy. Sometimes mentally, because I have suddenly realized something, achieved some form of enlightenment, during my run.
I could find thousands of reasons why I hate running, but I choose not to.
Finding the love makes me happier. It makes me more positive in all areas of life. It certainly makes 26.2 miles seem a little less daunting, a little less intimidating.
3. IT’S NO BIG DEAL.
Runners love perfect weather, those overcast, perfectly cloudy, but not rainy, days. Unfortunately, the weather doesn’t always cooperate. Sometimes it rains. Sometimes it’s bloody humid. And other times, well, it’s just damn hot.
Sometimes, my iPod runs out of battery. Sometimes, I have a throbbing blister on the ball of my foot.
No big deal.
It doesn’t prevent me from running. It doesn’t stop me from going for a five-minute jog. It might make it HARDER, but so what? I’ll be stronger, better, and faster because of it. Really, in the grand scheme of life, most things aren’t that big of a deal.
Usually, some good comes with every bad. A lot of unfortunate and unexpected things happen in life. But it’s how you look at it that affects your future choices and decisions. You can either shrug it off, deal with it, and try to be happy, or you can just let it ruin your day.
I don’t like ruining my day or my runs, so I just realize that most things really aren’t that big of a deal. It’ll pass. And hey, I still managed to get my run in!
4. LEARN FROM OTHERS.
I am a very independent person. I didn’t use C25K to run my first 5K race. I didn’t use any Half Marathon training plans. But that doesn’t mean I didn’t look at them or read about other people’s training experiences. I read about running all the time and I am humbled by how little I actually know.
I have realized that people are so willing to share their knowledge. Sometimes you have to ask, but most of the time, they offer advice without prompting. You can learn so much if you’re willing to listen.
Asking and seeking help isn’t a demonstration of weakness. It simply helps you expand your knowledge and makes you stronger and better.
Why NOT ask somebody who’s run 26.2 miles how they did it?
5. FINISH WHAT YOU STARTED.
It’s not about how fast or when you finish but that you finish at all that matters.
Crossing the finish line on race day meant that I achieved my goal, that I accomplished what I set out to do. I didn’t just give up halfway through because it was hard. I pushed through the physical pain, the mental barriers. I conquered it.
Finishing is what counts.
Running is all about finishing what you started. It will be a hard, long, treacherous journey, but there’s no greater feeling than finishing. That sense of accomplishment is indescribable. It’s one of those moments when you realize that nothing can stop you, that you really are The One.
It doesn’t matter how difficult the road ahead may be. If I am persistent, dedicated, and consistent, I will prevail. I will push through. With each step forward, I am one step closer to my goal, one step closer to victory.
Running has taught me so much about life and about myself.
It has helped me realize that I really can do every and anything I set my mind to. More importantly, it makes me feel proud of myself.
And nobody can take that feeling away from me. I’ve earned it.
What have you learned about yourself recently?
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I just want to let you know that I absolutely loved this post. I only just began my training for a half marathon a month or so ago, so I’m relatively new to the running game, but I’m already head over heels for it. All of the reasons you love running really resonated with me because they are all of the things I’ve come to love. You’ve found a brand new follower in me! Congratulations on finishing your half and good luck/good health with your full marathon!
Great Post Jess! Seriously I have learned much of the same from working out and losing weight. It’s funny how something like that can be used in every day life. It’s so awesome that you ran a marathon. I’m lookin to run a 5k this summer. Got any words of wisdom for me?
You’re a beast! Lol at this point I’m trying to work up to two miles without stopping. Well actually I haven’t tried to do it yet, but I’m going to soon. I haven’t ran enough to be really good at it.
But you’re right, it takes a lot of discipline, just like every else in life you want to be good at. Soon I’ll want to start running more.. and I’ll think back to what Jess said.
Cheers!
You sound like Mr. Myiagi. Great stuff!
.-= Joe´s last blog Running in Compression – Zensah Sleeve Review =-.
Wow! You’re a real inspiration to me. I’m also currently going through your same struggle. I started at your weight just a week ago (232), and am using running as a tool to lose weight. Right now I am doing a “From Couch to 5K” program that I found on the internet, but I aspire to run a 5K, then 10K, then half then full marathons eventually. I’m also chronicling my journey on my blog. I will be following along with your blog and reading past entries to see if I can learn something that will be useful to me.
Thank you for sharing this very intimate portion of your life with others!
I love this. You really ARE an inspiration Jess. Some people take running for granted, and say that it’s just about putting one foot in front of the other, but YOU my darling–you’ve got the heart of a runner. And I truly, sincerely admire that. Lesson learned.
What did I learn from myself recently? That my creativity sometimes makes me a messy person! Too many ideas, too little time = no time for organizing the parts of my life that I still have a duty to take care of!
Great post about running Jess. I especially love the point about never regretting going for a run – I totally agree with you on that one. I’m really falling in love with running, and usually am looking forward to my runs whole-heartedly, but sometimes, every now and then, I’ve got lots on my mind, or I’ve had a stressful day at work, or whatever, and I’m not so much in the mood to run. But every time, I still get out there and do it. And just as you said, I’ve never regretted it. Not once. I always feel better when i come back from a run, and that’s one of the things I love about it so much.
.-= Brandon´s last blog The Mental Game of Losing Weight =-.
Here are some things I’ve learned about myself:
*I can because I want too.
*I try because I want too.
*I may fail but I keep moving forward
*Moving forward means never to fail
*I love Pandas (heehee)
*I may not be the fastest but I am a runner.
I learned that I am not that fast of a runner because my legs are shorter and it takes more strides to get there!!
http://fitnessroadtrip.wordpress.com/2010/06/16/wow/