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Lessons Learned From Running

by Jess on June 11th, 2010 in Revelations, Tips for Runners

After finishing my first Half Marathon, I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about what running has taught me. I’ve realized that things I’ve learned from running apply not only to running but to everything I do in life. Because of running, I now know that I will be successful in everything I choose to do in life.

WHAT I HAVE LEARNED FROM RUNNING

1. DISCIPLINE.

Nobody goes from running nothing to running marathons overnight. Every runner puts time, effort, and energy into their training. Essentially, runners need self-discipline in order to accomplish their goals.

I can think of a bajillion reasons (excuses) why I shouldn’t run 26.2 miles. But at the end of the day, I still go out there and train. I still run and get my miles in. I might spend the first three miles regretting my decision. I might hit mile six and wish for death.

But it doesn’t matter. I still went out there.

At the end of the day, I never regret going out and running. Ever.

I can tune out my lazy inner voice because I realize that if I’m consistent, my hard work will pay off. I won’t be able to run a marathon if I don’t practice. I won’t be able to run a sub-30 5K unless I constantly push myself.

If I want to see results, I must push past my excuses. In the end, it’s always worth it.

 

2. LOVING WHAT YOU ARE DOING MAKES IT EASIER.

Running is not easy. It’s hard work. But loving and enjoying running makes it seem so much easier. You’re considerably happier when you’re doing something that you love instead of something that you dread or have to do.

It’ll still be difficult, but in the end, it’s worth it. It’s worth it because you love it.

Running has transformed into something that I love because I find reasons to love it.

I love running because it makes me connect with the Earth.
I love running because the air I breathe makes me feel alive.
I love running because the time I get alone allows me to clear my thoughts and focus.
I love running because it gives me absolute control.
I love running because it helps me set and accomplish goals.
I love running because it makes me feel invincible, like I am Wonder Woman.
I love running because it is free. You don’t need anything but your feet.
I love running because it is soul-cleansing.

I feel reborn after every run. Sometimes literally, because my muscles are begging for mercy. Sometimes mentally, because I have suddenly realized something, achieved some form of enlightenment, during my run.

I could find thousands of reasons why I hate running, but I choose not to.

Finding the love makes me happier. It makes me more positive in all areas of life. It certainly makes 26.2 miles seem a little less daunting, a little less intimidating.

 

3. IT’S NO BIG DEAL.

Runners love perfect weather, those overcast, perfectly cloudy, but not rainy, days. Unfortunately, the weather doesn’t always cooperate. Sometimes it rains. Sometimes it’s bloody humid. And other times, well, it’s just damn hot.

Sometimes, my iPod runs out of battery. Sometimes, I have a throbbing blister on the ball of my foot.

No big deal.

It doesn’t prevent me from running. It doesn’t stop me from going for a five-minute jog. It might make it HARDER, but so what? I’ll be stronger, better, and faster because of it. Really, in the grand scheme of life, most things aren’t that big of a deal.

Usually, some good comes with every bad. A lot of unfortunate and unexpected things happen in life. But it’s how you look at it that affects your future choices and decisions. You can either shrug it off, deal with it, and try to be happy, or you can just let it ruin your day.

I don’t like ruining my day or my runs, so I just realize that most things really aren’t that big of a deal. It’ll pass. And hey, I still managed to get my run in!

 

4. LEARN FROM OTHERS.

I am a very independent person. I didn’t use C25K to run my first 5K race. I didn’t use any Half Marathon training plans. But that doesn’t mean I didn’t look at them or read about other people’s training experiences. I read about running all the time and I am humbled by how little I actually know.

I have realized that people are so willing to share their knowledge. Sometimes you have to ask, but most of the time, they offer advice without prompting. You can learn so much if you’re willing to listen.

Asking and seeking help isn’t a demonstration of weakness. It simply helps you expand your knowledge and makes you stronger and better.

Why NOT ask somebody who’s run 26.2 miles how they did it?

 

5. FINISH WHAT YOU STARTED.

It’s not about how fast or when you finish but that you finish at all that matters.

Crossing the finish line on race day meant that I achieved my goal, that I accomplished what I set out to do. I didn’t just give up halfway through because it was hard. I pushed through the physical pain, the mental barriers. I conquered it.

Finishing is what counts.

Running is all about finishing what you started. It will be a hard, long, treacherous journey, but there’s no greater feeling than finishing. That sense of accomplishment is indescribable. It’s one of those moments when you realize that nothing can stop you, that you really are The One.

It doesn’t matter how difficult the road ahead may be. If I am persistent, dedicated, and consistent, I will prevail. I will push through. With each step forward, I am one step closer to my goal, one step closer to victory.

 

Running has taught me so much about life and about myself.

It has helped me realize that I really can do every and anything I set my mind to. More importantly, it makes me feel proud of myself.

And nobody can take that feeling away from me. I’ve earned it.

 

What have you learned about yourself recently?


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Day 122: Regrets

by Jess on June 3rd, 2010 in Revelations

I’ve realized that my weight has hindered me in many aspects of life, making me afraid to reach out and open up to people. It’s made me regret a lot of things I didn’t get a chance to do, especially during high school. So many choices I’ve made were and are affected by my weight and my health. So many “I wish I could’ve done that” are somehow connected to my weight and my self-image.

THINGS I REGRET…

Not getting asked to my senior prom.

I went, but with a girlfriend of mine. I never got the full package. You know, the guy with the roses, the balloons, the limo. And I never got that date dance.

Not walking at my high school graduation.

I graduated, but because of the number of classes I purposefully missed, the school prevented me from walking with my friends during graduation. It was my fault.

Not being in my senior yearbook.

I was 235 pounds and extremely unhappy with myself, but I wouldn’t admit. I wanted to hide from pictures, to hide from everybody. I just didn’t want to be there. But I wish I had.

Never rushing for a sorority in college.

Sororities aren’t my thing, I know this. I can’t deal with big groups of women, but it still would’ve been fun to say that I rushed. I was never secure enough about my body, about myself, to believe that I would be accepted.

Never having a proper date for Valentine’s Day.

My roommates and I threw ourselves an awesome Anti-Valentine’s party, but nothing compares to somebody taking the time and courage to ask you on a date, especially on Valentine’s Day.

Not being able to shop in Forever 21 and Abercrombie & Fitch.

I bought things from Forever 21, but they never fit right. I lied to myself, convinced myself that they did, but no, they really didn’t. I want to be able to go into that store, try things on, and have them fit. Even if I won’t buy it. I just want to say that I can fit into their clothing.

Feeling like the “fat” friend.

So we go out a lot. Whenever a guy starts talking to me, I always feel like he’s talking to me to get to my “skinny” friends because they’re prettier. I’m standoffish, I’m defensive, I’m self-conscious. I lose my confidence. I lose sight of the person that I am, so nobody else gets to see that person either.

 

There are many things I haven’t done that I regret not doing. I’ve discovered that regret is the worst feeling in the world because you can never rewind time. You can never take things back. You cannot change the past.

But you can move forward. You can control the present. There are so many things in my life that I have done that have made me a better person, that have shaped my ideas about the world, that have influenced my belief about people and increased my faith in myself. The things I did do, I never regret. It’s the things I didn’t do that nag at me inside. So I’m trying to live my life without regrets now.

I know I can finish my Half Marathon on Sunday. I will run a marathon. I will complete a triathlon. I will be at a “normal” body fat percentage. I will go skydiving. My list of things to do in life is ridiculously long, and I’m going to make sure that I do them.

No more regrets.

I’m not going to live a life where I’m afraid because of my appearance, my weight, and how my clothes fit. I’m not going to live a life where I shy from the world. I’m not going to use my weight as an excuse to not live, to not try new things. It’s prevented me from doing so many things, and I don’t want to give it that control over me. I’m better than that. I’m more than that.

No more regrets.

 

What are some things that you regret not doing?


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